1. Eye contact Holding eye contact is one of the oldest tricks in the book to flirt. If she looks you straight in the eye and doesn't look away, you're usually in luck.
Watch out for: Women who are just trying to keep your attention. Many women (and men) hold eye contact with someone else to better explain their thoughts, ideas in a business meeting. This is completely different to women throwing you a longing glance every time they see you. If she doesn't hold eye contact with you every time she sees you, it probably doesn't mean anything.
2. Touching. When out and about in bars or clubs women let men know they're interested when they make contact. This could be as subtle as a tap on the shoulder or touching the other person's arm during talking. It often relaxes the other person as it lets them know you're keen.
Watch out for: Some people are more "touchy feely" than others. If you see the same woman do a similar thing with other men – and girlfriends – in the office, beware, it means you're nothing special.
3. Laughing at your jokes. A classic technique. Many women and men who are flirting don't even know they do this. Sometimes laughter can be out of nerves over the other person, butterflies in the stomach. Sometimes a woman just wants to let the man know she thinks they're great.
Watch out for: If you are more senior than the woman doing the laughing, she probably feels she has to laugh at your jokes or will get a black mark against her name.
4. Smiling. Women who beam every time they see you are genuinely pleased to see you. They are waiting for a smile back – it's your signal to show you're also interested.
Watch out for: Smiles are a great way of covering up what's really on someone's mind. Is the smile genuine or does she have a vacant look behind her eyes? Does she have the same smile every time she greets somebody in the office, or is it really a special one for you?
5. Chatting. If a girl comes over and starts talking to you about non-work stuff, it's a sign she's interested. If she lingers, waiting for your response and comes back with more questions – to get to know you – you've a greater chance that she fancies you.
Watch out for: She may just be bored and is trying to pass the time. If it's a one-off chat on a miserable, wet Tuesday, maybe she just needs the company. If it's a regular occurrence it may be more of a sign that she's flirting.
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